Freely Speaking Audio Devotions

Welcome to Freely Speaking, an OHSOFREE devotional ministry where we share our hearts and trust God for transformation.

Today, Sharon Gomez encourages us to exercise patience in challenging relationships.

“A patient person shows great understanding, but a quick-tempered one promotes foolishness” (Proverbs 14:29 CSB).

My mouth has gotten me into trouble more times than I am willing to admit. I responded with unkind words when I felt attacked or had a difficult person in my life. My words were hurtful, whether spoken directly to or about someone.

My past includes enduring two divorces, during which there were plenty of opportunities for my character to be attacked. Misunderstood, falsely accused, and just plain unseen, these circumstances left me bitter and heartbroken, which are two perfect ingredients for unkindness.

Once I found Christ, everything changed. I rooted my identity in Him and learned the truths of grace and forgiveness. My heart softened, and over time, so did my responses to difficult relationships. 

Today's verse tells us that a patient person shows great understanding. This understanding consists of "all things God”—His character, love for us, fight for us, and grace through His Son. 

When we experience difficult circumstances due to our relationships, we can tap into these truths so there is no need to respond immediately. If only we ask, the Holy Spirit will intercede on our behalf so we can take a moment and breathe (Romans 8:26-27).

It took me some time to slow down my responses to difficult people. In addition to prayer, I would recall the words I spoke to my children when they were growing up: You can't control your brother (or sister); you can only control yourself. But as we know, this is easier said than done!

Another essential truth I cling to is in Ephesians 6:12. Paul writes that our enemies are not each other but the spiritual forces of evil. Our sinful nature causes us to hurt one another, but our Creator can help us break through this stronghold.

Difficult relationships can bring out the worst in us but exercising holy patience and remembering who our true enemy is can help curb our impulsive responses. Think about a difficult relationship you have had or are in now. Reflect on how God's truths can bring patience in the present or healing from the past.

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