Freely Speaking with Karen

I was seated cross-legged on a taped circle fiddling with the frilly hem of my pretty white lace dress. The Kindergarten Sunday School teacher told us about Jesus, smiling warmly at each child. She asked if anyone wanted to pray with her to accept Jesus into our hearts, and we all folded our little hands and prayed earnestly.

Fast forward to age 18. Because my family situation had been abusive, I felt like a caged wildcat. I was repressed, but I still thought of myself as a Christian. I believed God was calling me to the mission field, so I enrolled in Bible College. I met a boy I thought would please my mom and her family. Three months later, we were married. It turned out to be an abusive marriage which was eventually annulled. I turned right around and married a man I thought would please my dad and his side of the family. That also was abusive and failed.

I was a Christian, right? But I was not tracking with God at all, was I? I was trying to please others, not God. Indeed, it is clear to me now that I was sinning all along the way by not being honest with myself or anyone else. Had I ever truly been a Christian? Hmm, that’s a daunting thought, isn’t it? When Jesus says:

“…and you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free… if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed” (John 8:32-36 ESV).

He is telling the Jews exactly how they may have true freedom in Him. They must lay aside all sinful ways. Jesus says these wicked ways enslave and keep them from their Father’s Heavenly House. We can only have peace and freedom if we give everything to God in Jesus: all sin, all worry, all hurt, all bitterness, ALL of ourselves.  

We must track with Him every moment of every day, developing our relationship through prayer and reading His Word. Then we can rejoice in the amazing FREEDOM only He can give!

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Susan - July 5th, 2023 at 9:45am

I also am a recovering people pleaser! I made so many bad decisions based on what other people said or wanted from me. But I didn't want God to tell me what to do! Now I know true freedom is obeying God and submitting my life to him. He created me and wants the best for me.

Sarah Goff - July 5th, 2023 at 7:36pm

That must have been so hard for you to feel that strong of a need to please your parents. I have done this to with family. Putting up with thing that didn't make me happy but I had to keep the peace. Not my parents but other family always played the rehashing game bringing up the last but it sure wasn't the way God wanted it to be. I feel much closer to God when I'm alone and not consumed with others and their thoughts. It is than I feel most at peace. Loved this blog!!💜💜💋

Toni - July 5th, 2023 at 8:09pm

Thank you for opening your heart Karen. It takes strength!

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